Thursday, December 8, 2016

Eternal Families: A Part of God's Plan

For this blog entry I have chosen to focus on the family as a part of God's plan. I find this topic particularly meaningful, as it makes up a large part of the testimony I have developed of Christ's restored gospel and Church, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

In The Family: A Proclamation to the World, the family is declared as "central to the creator's plan for the eternal destiny of his children." The organization of the family has been a part of the Lord's plan and creation since the very beginning of time, and in at the center of His plan for us. My intended audience has been fellow Latter-day Saints, but anyone can learn more about the Plan of Salvation here. :)














* the original image can be found here

My intent is this blog entry is to share my personal testimony of the eternal family as a part of God's plan. My hope is that it may touch your own heart, and strengthen (or be the start to growing) your own testimony.

In the beginning, God created us, His spirit children. He is our Father, and we are all a part of His family. Marriage and family has been a part of His plan, and was instituted in the beginning. The Lord created the earth as a place for families to go, to learn and progress; a place where we could experience trials and tribulations, and experience joy. He knew that we could not experience this fullness without a family. Though we are imperfect, the Savior has made it possible, through His Atonement, for us to return to our Father in Heaven - as a family, to live together eternally.  Marriage and families are able to be made eternal through a sealing on earth and in heaven, which is made possible through the priesthood, and temple covenants. As we remain faithful to our covenants, His promised blessings will be ours, and we can be a family eternally, and receive a fullness of joy.

Elder Hugh B. Brown once stated:

"The family concept is one of the major and most important of the whole theological doctrine. In fact, our very concept of heaven itself is the projection of the home into eternity. Salvation, then, is essentially a family affair, and full participation in the plan of salvation can be had only in family units."

It is my testimony that all that I have shared is true. Outside of my relationship with the Lord, there is nothing that means more to me than my family. They have been the very reason for almost everything I have ever chosen to do that is good in my life, including the decision to serve a full-time mission. They are my everything, and I know I can be with them eternally as I remain faithful to the gospel of Jesus Christ. We may not be perfect, but we can be perfected through Him and His Atonement, and find great joy individually and as families.

My prayer is that we can all experience the joy of family life, and never let anything come between us that hinders us from reaching our divine potential as a family unit. I love the gospel of Jesus Christ and my family with all my heart, and will do whatever it takes to be with them forever, because I know that it is where true joy and love is found.

Here is an old photo of me and my beautiful family:


And as an additional resource, I wanted to share one of my favorite videos on personal testimony of the Plan of Salvation:

Repentance and Forgiveness

Repentance and forgiveness are relatively heavy topics to address. There is no way I could ever cover all of my thoughts on the subject, or share everything I have ever learned regarding repentance and forgiveness in one blog entry, and that is why I want to focus on just a few things regarding the two.

Why should I repent and forgive?

Repentance and forgiveness have been common themes found throughout the Bible, The Book of Mormon, and other religious documents. It is even commonly practiced among many irreligious people now as well.

From a doctrinal standpoint, the need for repentance and forgiveness are made clear by the Lord through His servants. President David O. McKay once stated that no "principle or ordinance of the gospel" is "more essential to the salvation of the human family than the divine and eternally operative principle [of] repentance." Forgiveness is spoken of in a similar fashion, especially since the two go hand in hand. Christ clearly taught that in order to be forgiven, we too must forgive (Mark 11:25-26). Repentance and forgiveness are not always easy, but are made possible through Christ. Each is an essential prerequisite for our eternal salvation, and from a doctrinal standpoint, that is why we should repent and forgive.

Additional blessings of repentance and forgiveness are more universal to those of differing faiths, including the irreligious. Repentance and forgiveness can repair relationships, and also increase one's emotional and physical health. When we withhold forgiveness, the opposite becomes true - there are greater risks to our emotional and physical health.

How do I repent and forgive?

Repentance and forgiveness are very personal, and the process of each is never exactly the same for everyone. The Church of Jesus Christ has provided some wonderful resources regarding both though. Each has been broken down into steps that we can follow. They have been very beneficial to me personally, so I feel it is important to share these steps with others as well.

5 Steps of Repentance:

  1. Recognize the sin.
  2. Feel sorrow for the sin.
  3. Forsake the sin.
  4. Confess.
  5. Make restitution.
*For more detail on each of these steps, visit the following link at LDS.org: https://www.lds.org/manual/gospel-principles/chapter-19-repentance?lang=eng

The following steps provided regarding forgiveness were created by Everett Worthington, and can be found in scholarly literature, as well as in some online platforms.

5 Steps of Forgiveness:
  1. Recall the hurt.
  2. Empathize.
  3. Offer the altruistic gift of forgiveness.
  4. Commit publicly to forgive.
  5. Hold on to forgiveness.
*For more on each of these steps, follow the following link: http://www.evworthington-forgiveness.com/research/

I have experienced a great deal of repentance and forgiveness in my personal life, and I know that as I continually repent, and find it in my heart to forgive, I have been much happier. There is a power of healing and peace that comes when we repent and forgive, and I know that it is because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. While not always easy, the Lord makes it possible. My hope and prayer is that the truths I have shared in this blog entry may bless and help you, as they have blessed and helped me.

Additional Resources: